Testimonials
De vuelta de la traición
We were that couple that everyone thought had it all. Success, great kids, great house, luxury cars, frequent travel, etc. We were the picture postcard of the perfect standard to shoot for, and we even had what everyone believed to be the ideal marriage. Everyone we knew thought we were "the lucky ones."
Nobody knew our dark secret. To keep up that life, we worked countless hours, seven days a week, and spent long periods of time apart chasing that financial dream, and supporting that facade of our lives... until it all came crashing down on us. Our marriage was unsustainable as we grew further and further apart. We were like business partners that lived together, and that affected everything.
Llegamos a un punto de ruptura y supimos que teníamos que dejarlo todo. Los dos habíamos roto muchos de nuestros votos matrimoniales y uno de los dos rompió "el grande".
Attending our Retrouvaille weekend was absolutely amazing for us. Suddenly, there we were with couples that understood. These presenting couples shed a light on our marriage that we wish we had seen a decade prior, and helped us understand what really mattered in life. We opened up and learned things about each other that we had been completely unaware of.
We can honestly say that despite the years of keeping up a facade while we were miserable, it was all worth it. Retrouvaille brought our marriage to a place where we could truly heal, forgive, and trust. No marriage therapist asking how something makes us feel, "telling" us what to do. No group therapy asking us to reveal our private lives to strangers. It was all about us, and it was a true miracle.
Did it help us? To say yes would be an understatement. It helped us achieve a relationship that is now better than it was when we were first married. Something we never thought possible.
Blended Family, Second Marriage, Betrayal, and Coming Clean
Once the truth surfaced, we chose marriage counseling and a weekend at Retrouvaille to see if we could salvage our marriage. The cautious feeling for the unknown at the Retrouvaille weekend soon became safe with a realization no one was there to judge but only to support us. Presenting couples and the Priest were there to share their stories. We gained the powerful tools to start healing what was broken and strengthen us and our marriage. The healing and support through Retrouvaille is a refreshing gift in today's society. The effort and mutual choice we made to attend has given us a true and positive hope for our marriage, family and future. We are stronger and better than we ever were.
We needed to refresh our marriage.
Buscaba algo que refrescara nuestro matrimonio, que nos llevara a donde solíamos estar, a encontrarnos a nosotros mismos, a nuestro amor y nuestros intereses. Estábamos avanzando, no de mala manera, pero sentía que nuestro matrimonio podía ser mejor y más significativo, y asistir realmente nos ayudó a comunicarnos. Fue maravilloso. Este programa debería formar parte del matrimonio de todo el mundo y tiene que empezar muy pronto. Aprendimos mucho el uno del otro que no sabíamos.
Habíamos visitado a varios consejeros matrimoniales individuales durante meses con poco beneficio.
My wife and I struggled with marital issues for years, and after months of traditional counseling, we saw little progress. Retrouvaille was life-changing. This program, founded as a Catholic ministry but open to all, is welcoming no matter your beliefs (I’m an atheist, and my wife is a non-practicing Lutheran). Only about 10% of the content has a Catholic perspective, but you can take or leave what fits your beliefs.
Retrouvaille isn’t counseling; it’s an intensive, structured weekend retreat, followed by weekly sessions. During the weekend, you’ll learn practical tools to help rebuild trust and communication. Unlike therapy, you won’t share personal details in group settings but engage privately with your spouse to tackle issues together.
After completing Retrouvaille, my wife and I communicated better than we had in years, and our 20th anniversary was the happiest in a long time. For any struggling couple, this program offers hope, a fresh start, and a path toward a lasting, loving marriage.
No podíamos hablar sin discutir.
Estábamos en la miseria cuando fuimos a nuestro fin de semana Retrouvaille. No podíamos hablar sin discutir. Nuestros tres hijos adolescentes vivían en una zona de guerra. En el fin de semana de Retrouvaille pudimos volver a conectar y encontramos esperanza. Con el tiempo, nuestro matrimonio entró en una segunda luna de miel. Somos capaces de vivir en armonía gracias a las habilidades que aprendimos en el programa Retrouvaille.
Life-Changing
Some marriages have a big event. Ours was death by a thousand cuts. Retrouvaille changed the course of our lives. We are truly happier today than when we were first married.
Delight
Before this, I couldn’t even find a birthday or anniversary card that felt meaningful. Now, I want to buy every card I see because the words finally resonate. That’s how much this has changed our marriage.